Plattner Family Jamaica Update (March/April)
“So, how are things in Jamaica?” Oh, if I only had a dollar for every time I heard that question over the three weeks we were in the states. It is a good question, I am not criticizing the question, it is most natural and appropriate. This is no criticism of the question; it is a critique of the right answer. How do you answer that question? Honestly, it depends on who is asking and a thousand other variables that my brain would try to calculate in the microseconds I had before the asker expected an answer. I guess the question is, how do you summarize all of the events of an extended period of time into socially appropriate response? Is the answer mathematical, do you calculate that since 55% of all of the events of the past 6 months were positive, you round up and report that all is good? I have an aversion to the pat answer, which is the easiest and often the most desired response. So, back to the question, why when trying to summarize history, does the whole always end up less than the sum of the parts? How can we make a quick summary of all of life’s events properly represent reality? I don’t think we can, there is not enough time, not enough brainpower, there is no way to capture all of the beautiful intricacies of the ups and downs of life. So, what is the answer? I have no answer for how to rightly summarize 6 months into a 2 minute conversation, but I have been thinking about another application for these ideas. For all young families, the mantra most often heard is to, “cherish the times when your kids are young because they will soon be gone.” We have really tried to take that advice to heart. We believe it is true and we do not want to suffer the consequences of ignoring its wisdom. So, this is my conclusion, since trying to appropriately summarize long periods of time to represent the beauty of the moments is impossible, don’t try it. Now that we are back in Jamaica, we are answering the same question again in reverse, “How was your time in the states?” While my verbal answer may still represent an over generalized summary of our experiences, I hope my heart is remembering the little things. The joy that we experienced in sharing that meal with friends. The laughs that we shared as a family watching old home videos. The kids building relationships with their cousins, laughing, playing, crying. The little things. Encouraging conversations. Simply sharing time. The list goes on and on, and that is the beautiful thing. Trying to do the addition yourself is impossible, but by celebrating the little things, reality can be properly represented. So, lets forget trying to capture time in such big chunks, but remember the little things, His faithfulness in the smallest moments, His beauty being revealed in the littlest ways, and His love being shared in the sweetest of times.
Ok, maybe that was trying to wax a little too eloquent there at the end, but you get the idea. We had a great time in the states. It was our desire for this trip to be very intentional and purposeful. We know that with time, quality does not always beat quantity, but we wanted to give it our best shot. There were a few curveballs thrown in for good measure. We wrestled with some sick kids and all of those accompanying joys and as we have stated before, there is just no way to connect with everyone. It is our intention to continue on the plan of trying to make a trip to the states every 8 months. But, as we have experienced before, it is impossible to predict those things and we make all plans against the backdrop of “Lord Willing.”
We are settling back into the swing of things in Jamaica. We love Jamaica, but Jamaica can also make us crazy. During our Cross Cultural training, we learned about this experience of having these two conflicting emotions simultaneously. Well, I am not so sure what we learned about dealing with the conflicting emotions, but just that it is a common reality and to not let it scare us or to run away from its presence. So, that is our life right now. We are excited to be back, its good to be with friends, but we continue to wrestle with the craziness that we find as an ever-present reality of our lives in Jamaica. I think that is our biggest prayer request, that we would not let the fogginess that can come from the emotional fatigue of our conflicting emotions affect our clarity for what we are doing and how we are to be serving.
Again, thanks for your love and prayers. To the many that we were able to connect with, it was awesome, thanks for your time. Thank you so much for the encouragement. Also, a quick water update. As many of you know, we have been without consistent water for several months. For a week or two after Easter, Jamaica got some really good rains. So, while our water is still not always there, it is better. We do want to give thanks for all the little things and remember them. We know that our God is into the little things and we pray that our lives can also reflect that nature in gratitude.